Hello esteemed friends and others, i wrote an article for our Peace Corps Lesotho publication and wanted to share it with you. The following is a true story.
MAY 2009
“You know, when I was living abroad, I bought a certain kind of perfume, and wore it while I lived there. Now, every time I smell it it brings back my memories of living in France. I think it’d be great if you did the same thing!”
I nod eagerly at my worldly and wise Fragrance Friend. That is exactly what I need for my upcoming crazy, life-changing adventure to Lesotho (oh, great small land of mystery!).
I am quick to take her advice, yet my tight budget and even tighter schedual before departure in June force me through the open doors of a RiteAid. Choices here range between Whiff of Brittney and Musk of Old Lady. After an agonizing hour of countless spray ‘n sniffs I’m starting to panic. My sense of smell has been completely obliterated and I’ve chosen nothing. Finally, my mother, tired of my indecisiveness picks out something along the lines of “Cool Woman” a fresh mature scent for the professionally minded. “Prepare yourself Lesotho”, I think as we drive away, “Cool Woman is coming!”
SEPT 2009
Three months in country, one month at site, and only TWO misty sprays of “Cool Woman” utilized to date. I hate the mature, fresh alcoholic perfume that leaves me smelling more like a cheap magazine than anything its label promises. This can only be described as a disaster. How am I suppose to remember my experience here in Lesotho without a personalized scent?! I’ve been agonizing over it for weeks now. Every time I look at my calendar, another day is lost to the unrelenting haziness of unscented memories. I test run “Cool Woman” one last time. The following week I give up on my RiteAid purchase and hand the hateful blue bottle over to my inquisitive ausi. Now I’m left with nothing, and a deep melancholy depression sets in. I bake bohobe-ba-metsi to appease my soul, and my new found carb-addiction.
MANY EVENTFUL MONTHS LATER, 2010
I embark on a journey back to the homeland. Great land of evergreens, Starbucks, the Pacific Ocean and some *expletive deleted* good food. Between stuffing my face full of spicy Thai food, drowning myself in micro-brews and eating a local pastry shop back into business, I find time to visit my Fragrance friend.
As I walk through her door, I am met by a lightly floral and citrusy aroma that is sweet, feminine yet delicate. Before I even see her a huge grin starts to spread across my face, as the happy memories of the time we lived together are triggered. Fragrance Friend is one of my besties and this new home of hers smells exactly like our old one.
Later on that day, over an expansive meal of sushi and wine, my mind wanders back to the conversation I had with my friend about perfumes and secured memories. Something I’d deliberately put out of my mind in the preceding months. I quickly realize that I’ve let an entire year slide by, and maybe now is my chance to save the second one. Once again, I’m semi-obsessed over giving my time in Lesotho a tangible scent connection. This time, however, I have a solid plan. I ask my Fragrance friend what kind of perfume she uses, because it really is quite exquisite. Turns out, it’s Dior, and comes with its own exquisite price tag. While I come with a rustic Peace Corps living allowance. I feel defeated once again.
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I enjoyed the rest of my visit with Dior Fragrance friend and drove my barely functioning (yet still totally awesome) Suzuki Sidekick back to my parents house. On the way there, I decide to stop by an Albertsons, to purchase some candy, and was browsing the isles when I came to a dead stop in isle 7 (lotions/shampoos/feminine hygiene needs). A huge grin plasters itself across my face while realization dawns on me. I never needed a “special fragrance” for Lesotho, it already comes with a host of its own, one of which was wafting towards me in isle 7; cocoa butter lotion.
For those PCV’s unfamiliar with the cocoa butter craze of Berea district (and perhaps others as well, I wouldn’t really know I don’t leave mine), I plead with you to direct yourself to the nearest Machaena/Indian/local Shoppong and purchase a container of “Clere” brand (with a picture of PCV’s Irena’s face on it) cocoa butter. You and your changed life can thank me later.
From that isle 7 moment on, I’ve catalogued many different scents of Lesotho that are deeply intertwined into my (and hopefully your own) psyche. Of those, one of the most prominent is the musky, cool scent of the dining/classroom building in the T-center. Not much in life compares to the intensiveness of pre-service training and the rich smell of that building always brings me back to those first few weeks. There are some smells that will remind me of Lesotho, no matter where I am. The strong, sharp odor of a paraffin lamp, or the distinct reek of a gas stove will bring back images of reading and or/eating late at night, tucked cozily inside a rondaval.
The pungent, offensive and highly toxic smell of plastic set ablaze will never fail to pull at my heartstrings. As memories of gleeful trash burnings on a cool summer night are recycled to the surface of my awareness. I believe that if papa had a more discernable “food” smell, then I have no doubt that henceforth, anytime I’d come into contact with it, Lesotho would be on my mind.
These were some of the reassuring thoughts flooding my brain as I left the Albertsons that day. The matter felt finished, I had no more need to agonize over scents, memories and neural connections.
This story would’ve ended there had I not been an avid reader of free in-flight magazines. For better or worse, my stint in ‘Merica (oh great land of wonder and goodness) was over for the time being and I was on my way back to the land of my calling; Lesotho. Sitting in an expansive Boeing 7-something or other, I flipped through the pages of the duty free ‘Sky’ magazine. A carefully placed ad caught my eye, a set of the top-five best selling Dior fragrances for women, on sale now (special Atlantic routes only)! It took me only the better half of three minutes to fully scrutinize the ad. Did I qualify for this unbelievable offer? Woman? Yes. Atlantic route? (pause for map check) YES! That was the defining moment when I began to feel my new credit card burning a hole in my pocket.
Turns out these new planes come with a credit card machine built right into the entertainment system. I just wish that duty free purchases came with a complimentary phone call home, to alert ones significant financial other (in my case my parents, whose money I was now liberally spending) of ones high altitude impulse buys. For my part, I blamed it on the free beverage service, amongst other reasons (“but mom I’m going back to Lesotho!”).
So as these things go, Lesotho, you DO have an array of your own charming smells that will forever hold me close to you. However, just in case cow patties fail to wriggle themselves into my memory, I have a backup plan, five in fact. So far, this month has been colored by the smoky, yet deliciously sweet aroma of Dior’s Hypnotic Poison. Next month is looking pretty good for debuting Dior’s Addict.
Now that I have spent so much of my time (and yours too reader) obsessing over memories, I believe that I’ve compiled an impressive ‘sense memory’ package, in addition to smell that I’m inclined to gift to you.
I believe this mountain kingdom first and foremost tastes like papa, braii pork, Squadron and ginger beer, sounds like lil ‘Wayne, famu and electricity snapping through the air, feels like a crowded hot taxi speeding down a potholed road, or the lethargy that sets in after an especially long meditative stint staring at my wall, it most definitely looks like a khobo wrapped Mosotho, or a rewarding KFC sign, and it smells without a doubt, like duty free Dior.